The issue may crop up early. They may meet a potential friend at a party, have a good conversation and talk about hanging out sometime, then be over the idea when it's time to follow. The loss of interest can strike later on, but still too soon.
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Someone may meet a new friend and hang out over month or two, then suddenly grow tired with the relationship. A related problem, that happens even earlier, is when you feel disinterested in initially chatting to people and trying to get to know. It will focus on friendships, but many of the explanations can also apply to romantic relationships.
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Your lack of interest is a defense mechanism against various fears There are risks to trying to make friends, and some people are more afraid of them than. It's beyond the scope of this article to delve into why someone may have these fears to begin with, but here they are: Fears related to being hurt: Your new friends may reject you once they get to know you just a little better i.
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During the times when you're feeling more social you may meet some people and develop a fledgling friendship or two. But before long the tide turns, and you're not into it anymore. You tend to have conversations that don't allow people to show their interesting side This isn't to say that with the right conversation skills you can become interested in everybody, or that it's your fault if someone doesn't intrigue you.
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You don't know how to build deeper, more-satisfying friendships You're okay at initially befriending people, but you don't know how to move it past that early, more-surface level. Some people are perfectly happy to have long-standing friendships where they do activities, joke around, and talk about their hobbies, but never get to know each other on a more intimate level.
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Later in life if they meet someone who likes and accepts them straight away it feels vaguely wrong, and they find themselves losing interest, even if they logically realize that the person is a good match for.
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From your end it seems like they've become boring, and you lose. Another example would be moving too fast in your friendships.
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It's just your personality and social preference at the moment There may not be a deeper reason why you quickly lose interest in people. Maybe you're in a busy phase in your life, and new friendships aren't your priority.
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